So you've got engaged? Congratulations!
Of course once you've toasted your engagement you will realise you 
need to organise a wedding! Although this sounds simple, this is no simple task.

After all surely  all you need is a venue to get married and a venue for the
reception.  Right? If only things were that simple!

With weddings the devil really is in the details. Planning a wedding 
can be a delight or a chore depending on how organised or not you are.
Here are a few things you'll need to think about:

If you want to get married in a church? If so which church? And this 
limits where your reception can be as it shouldn't be too far away as 
you don't want your guests to get lost en route!

Of course you're going to want a cake, flowers, maybe a sweetie table? 
There really are so many options that you can go to town as much as 
you want!

You'll notice that I've not mentioned something that is in the title 
of the article so far - namely choosing a wedding photographer? Well 
read on!

Long after all the flowers have died, cake has been eaten and the poor 
jokes of the best man have been forgotten there are only a couple of 
things that will remain from your wedding. One of these is your dress; 
the other is your wedding photographs. What are you more likely to get 
out and show your grandchildren?

A dress and say "Look, what a wonderful dress we had a lovely day" 
of course we didn't hire a professional photographer so we haven't got 
anything else to show for our day? OR "Look at this amazing album 
what a beautiful record of our day, showing us both looking a million 
dollars and so happy, look at how we're looking at each other as that 
light really shows off my dress?". I know what I'd rather people say!

So now I've convinced you that you really want a professional 
photographer to capture your day, you want someone who will be able 
to react to any situation that happens on your day.
So here are the points to consider before committing to hire a 
professional photographer.

You're going to spend a lot of time with this person before, after and 
particularly on your wedding day so it's essential that you get on 
with them. It's no good them having an amazing portfolio if you can't 
imagine yourself working with them. So I'd say this is one of the most 
important things, as you need to feel comfortable enough that you know 
you will get the images you want and deserve!

Of course it goes without saying that you'll not only want to see some 
examples of their work but also some full weddings, ideally some 
finished albums as delivered to clients, but, complete wedding 
galleries are also good. This gives you a much better understanding of 
their work and ensures you don't just see a dozen lucky images plucked 
from a few weddings.

Of course there is the usual questions of cost, you need to be clear 
how much you can afford and to that end ensure you can accurately 
gauge how much your complete wedding package will cost including any 
extras.
That's it! Really it honestly is. If you get on with the photographer 
and like their work (and you are happy you've seen enough depth) then 
I say go for it! Sure there are lots of other questions that you can 
ask that are listed in bridal magazines, but, these are designed to 
sell bridal magazines rather than really help a bride decide on their 
wedding photographer.

I'll leave you with one last thought, if you're on a budget (and who 
isn't!), and you value having lasting memories of your wedding day 
when you look your best then really look at spending as much as you 
can on your wedding photography and not trying to cut corners. So I'd 
always recommend going for as nice an album as you can afford and for 
someone who is going to be able to capture those images that you'll be 
proud to show your grandchildren!

Greg Thurtle is a Dorset based wedding photographer living in Tarrant 
Hinton nr Blandford Forum and offers modern, contemporary and fun 
wedding photography for his clients.

As any 21st century bride knows you need to 'try before you buy'.  Increasingly, couples decide to live together before they get married.  The only downside to this pre-nuptial bliss? What gifts to ask for! But what do you do if you don't need a new steam iron or cotton sheets but the thought of asking for cold hard cash fills you with dread? What are the other options?
There is something that any bride and groom would find hard to refuse: the honeymoon of their dreams! A honeymoon gift list works in a very similar way to a traditional department store gift registry, but instead of kitchen implements or fresh towels, you put together a list of experiences and activities for your honeymoon.
Imagine champagne chilling in your upgraded hotel suite, a gourmet meal in the flickering candle light as the ocean laps nearby.  It's all so much more appealing than a blender - and so much more appealing for your guests, too, who'll feel that they've given you a really special treat instead of merely contributing to an anonymous pot of cash.
Some honeymoon wedding list services operate as extensions of travel agencies, forcing you to book your honeymoon travel and accommodation through them in order to use the registry service. Others cater to the independent traveller, but charge a commission on anything reserved through the site, so that your guests are funding the service directly from their gifts.
Buy Our Honeymoon (http://www.buy-our-honeymoon.com/) is the UK's leading honeymoon wedding list service, and takes a different approach. The site charges a one-off fee of £55 and allows you to receive payment for any gifts reserved from your list in whatever way suits you best - in cash on your wedding day, by cheque through the post, or online using a credit or debit card into your own PayPal account.
You can choose from a variety of beautiful design themes, personalise your wedding list pages with your own photos, and add absolutely anything you wish to your online list.  Buy Our Honeymoon offers dedicated telephone and email support to you and your guests, together with 70 customisable registry cards as part of the package.
The site was borne out of the founders' hopes for their own dream honeymoon road trip across the Deep South of the USA:
"We realised that we really didn't need any of the things traditionally found in wedding gift lists. We'd been living together for years, and had cultivated a fine habit of buying each other kitchen implements as Christmas presents. A normal gift list would have been slightly redundant and, frankly, a waste of our guests' money," says Shelley Green.
"We'd heard of people asking for money towards their honeymoon but didn't want to ask our friends and family simply to do that. We thought it would be much better if people knew what the money was for. So, we thought we'd ask our guests for specific things we were planning for our honeymoon: theme park tickets, a car upgrade, a cabin in the Smoky Mountains, meals, champagne."
And as for whether their guests approved... "We were surprised by how much our guests loved it, many of them going well beyond the call of duty in their generosity. We had been concerned that some of our older guests might feel that we were simply asking for cash and consider us rude. We needn't have worried, though: our guests each felt that their gift was the specific experience or activity they'd reserved and not the cash value we'd assigned to it."
For more information on how to make the most of your honeymoon gift list, visit Buy Our Honeymoon at http://www.buy-our-honeymoon.com/ or call 0845 224 0189.

Finding the perfect venue for an intimate wedding can often create unwanted stress on the run up to your big day. It is becoming more and more popular these days to opt for the smaller ceremony and reception with just a few close family and friends to enjoy your special day with you. The size of your wedding doesn’t relate to how much you love each other and not everybody wants the big show, so one shouldn’t feel pressured in to holding one. However, many venues that are ideal for the larger wedding party are not able to cater for a small wedding, adding supplements and even giving a minimum wedding party number. You would be surprised the extra time it can take to find a suitable intimate wedding venue.

The Yarn Market Hotel in Dunster, West Somerset, recognises the niche in this market and is proud to be able to cater for your special day. Located in a picturesque, medieval village on the doorstep of the Exmoor National Park, there are some amazing photographic opportunities. Dunster Castle creates the backdrop, a perfect venue for the ceremony. The hotel itself offers a cosy, intimate suite for the reception holding up to 30 guests and even the option of a pianist to create that special relaxed atmosphere. We are a wonderful place to rest, relax, walk, ride and recharge your 'batteries'.

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